Shower of Love

You can shower as a daily routine, or you can shower in a way that awakens connection, play and sensual togetherness with your beloved!

Set aside time to take a delicious shower or bath together (check the tub is big enough for two to manoeuvre). If possible, we warmly suggest that you add to the sensual and intimate ambience by lighting some candles and playing some nice music.

Undress slowly and intentionally, stepping into the shower or bathtub. Make sure the water temperature is warm and pleasant to both of you. As a first step, embrace each other and relax and take some moment to enjoy the simple sensation of the warm water cascading over your skin.

Once you are settled in a loving, connected and relaxed atmosphere you can begin to take turns washing each other’s body with your favourite soap. Gently lather and clean the other one’s skin, taking this opportunity to lovingly explore them with a light, appreciative touches. We suggest taking turns so each one of you can be fully present to both the act of giving and receiving.

Aim to make each caress and touch of the beloved’s body a gesture of adoration and devotion, becoming aware that you are attentively tending to the sacred temple that houses their soul. Through your touch and caresses, choose to consciously offer care, love and total presence. 

This experience is deeply sensual, and you are invited to stay fully present in each and every sensation that you offer and receive, bringing the attention back into the exercise if you notice that it jumps into thoughts of what may or may not come later.

Afterwards, dry each other slowly and gently with warm, soft towels. Feel and savour the sweetness of being together in this intimate, innocent and sensual space.